The three-3-3 Rule of Canine Rescue and a Penny Progress Replace

Have you ever heard of the 3-3-3 rule of adopting a brand new canine?

It’s a set of tips for transitioning a brand new canine into your own home. Don’t let the phrases “rule” or “tips” trick you into considering it is a hard-and-fast state of affairs. Fairly, I like to think about it extra as a framework or mindset to assist your new canine settle.

Let’s dig in, and I’m going to share how our new pup, Penny, is doing on the identical time.

Right here’s the gist of the 3-3-3 rule:

The primary 3 days are to your canine to acclimate to his or her new environment. That is the “the place the heck am I” and “am I staying right here” part. At this level, your canine isn’t displaying his or her true colours due to the overwhelm.

The primary 3 weeks are to your canine to study the family guidelines and bounds in a loving, form, constructive method. It begins your bonding course of off on the fitting foot (er, paw?) and establishes the muse of your relationship.

The primary 3 months are for socialization, coaching, and new experiences. By the tip of three months, your canine ought to really feel settled and safe. Part of the household.

All through these first three days, weeks, and months, your job is to remain affected person. Set up form boundaries. Stay calm. Present your canine with a protected, quiet area to make use of at his or her will. Be constant and sort. Reward what you need. Ignore or redirect what you don’t need. Begin fundamental coaching. Stroll each day, when you can. Perceive upfront your canine will begin to take a look at boundaries. Be affected person and keep constant.

Your canine’s job? Sniff, discover, take a look at, experiment. Actually, it’s to check the boundaries and work out what’s and isn’t acceptable habits in your house. As your pup turns into safer in your house, you’ll begin to see much more of his or her true persona shine via.

After three months, proceed to coach, problem, and socialize along with your pup, although she or he must be assured that your loved ones is right here to remain–no extra shelter for you, pupperoo!

So, how’s Penny doing?

In case you haven’t but met Penny, right here’s the primary submit the place I launched her and defined a little bit of her background and quirks. Wanting again at that submit, I’m amazed at how far she’s come… however extra on that in a sec.

Holding the 3-3-3 rule in thoughts, I additionally up to date on her progress after the primary month. On this occasion, I stretched these first three weeks into 4 largely as a result of week one for Penny consisted of sleep, sleep, and extra sleep. Trauma restoration, we expect.

Now, we’re simply previous the three-month mark, and there’s a whole lot of progress to share!

Looking back, at three days, Penny wasn’t even able to deal with family routines. She wanted to sleep and eat. That was it.

At three weeks, she felt safer and extra built-in into the family, however her concern nonetheless dominated. Even at 4 weeks, once I wrote that final replace, she nonetheless oscillated between consolation and concern each single day.

Penny’s 3-month replace

She’s doing amazingly nicely.

Penny walks across the neighborhood most days. Some days–twice final week–one thing scares her, however she trusts us sufficient to know that when she freezes and turns towards residence, we’ll comply with as a substitute of push.

She performs with toys. Now she must study the distinction between canine toys and child toys, however actually? That’s on the people, not the canine. Violet and Astrid shortly discovered the consequence of not selecting up their toys and stuffed animals.

She sleeps a standard schedule now, which is a huge reduction.

Penny lately entered the kitchen–twice–all on her personal. We doled out reward and treats, however that wasn’t sufficient to persuade her it’s a protected area but. She hasn’t returned since.

She nonetheless hasn’t walked down the entrance corridor. Possibly she’s going to sometime. Possibly she gained’t. For now, she’s established an extended route via the lounge to get to the steps and skips the hallway altogether. And that’s OK. She’ll get there… or she gained’t. Once more, I’m not prepared to push on issues that don’t matter.

Lest the 3-3-3 rule appear too good

I checked out a whole lot of infographics that implied your canine will probably be completely settled in at three months! Congrats! You made it!

Besides. Nuh-uh.

Possibly your canine completely match proper into your loved ones and your family and by three months hit a stable stride.

It’s attainable, nevertheless it appears much less doubtless than your canine needing a bit longer than that mark, which is why I like to think about it extra because the 3-3-3 guideline.

Penny nonetheless flinches while you elevate an arm or leg close to her (although she hangs out once I observe yoga, in order that’s big progress). She gained’t stroll down the hallway–or enter a toilet, the eating room, or the laundry room, for that matter. She feels safer lounging in her crate than she does snuggling on my mattress.

Candy Penny whines and cries when she realizes somebody is someplace she will be able to’t entry (like the lavatory or eating room) and won’t go to the lavatory on a stroll.

She drinks water from puddles within the yard and is simply now beginning to belief the canine bowls of recent water on the deck and in the home.

At three months, your canine in all probability understands she or he is right here to remain. And that’s superior. That’s an enormous hurdle for canine who’ve been bounced round from shelters or rescues or foster properties or unstable, unsafe conditions like Penny’s.

The remaining will depend on the canine’s persona and the family people’ canine expertise.

So, when you’re somebody who reads one thing like this set of tips and feels such as you’re failing as a result of your canine continues to be scared / reactive / untrained / no matter on the three-month mark, relaxation assured that you just’re positive. Your canine is ok. I imply, heck, I labored with Cooper for greater than 13 years and he by no means “overcame” his concern or his reactivity.

It’s not about having a “good” canine after three months. It’s about constructing a bond along with your canine, constructing belief and safety. Giving your canine a way of security.

The remaining, like Penny’s hallway, will both come or it gained’t.

In the event you loved this submit, you’ll in all probability take pleasure in my forthcoming ebook, For the Love of Canine, from Regalo Press in February 2025. It’s chock stuffed with the newest analysis in canine cognition mixed with tales of my canine to convey the information to life. To remain up-to-date on the newest with Penny and my publication information,  be part of the mailing record or comply with alongside on Instagram.

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